Leadership
September 9, 2025
6 min read

Stop Settling In

Stop Settling In: How to Win Your First 120 Days on the Job

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So you just landed a new job.


You’re excited. Nervous. Maybe a little unsure what to do next.


That’s normal.


Everyone tells you to “settle in,” to “observe quietly,” and to “give it time.”


You hear phrases like “just soak it all up” or “play it safe until you find your footing.”


But here’s the truth no one tells you:


Your new job isn’t a fresh start. It’s a quiet test.


And most people fail it—not because they lack skill, but because they drift through the early days without a real plan.


They wait too long to speak up.


They play it safe in meetings.


They do what’s asked and nothing more.


And by the time they finally feel confident, the impression has already been made.


That’s why your first 120 days aren’t a grace period.


They’re the moment you’re being sized up—subtly, silently, and consistently.


Are you proactive or passive?


Do you simplify or complicate?


Can people trust you? Count on you? Learn from you?


That’s what’s being decided—day by day, hour by hour—whether you realize it or not.


And the people who get remembered, trusted, and invited into the big work?


They’re not coasting.


They’re moving with clarity.


Let’s talk about how to do the same.


Why This Matters More Than Ever


The way people work today is different.


Teams are leaner. Time is tighter. Expectations are higher.


And in a world of remote dashboards, async check-ins, and ever-evolving tools, nobody has time to guess what you’re doing—or what you’re capable of.


You might think you’re doing well, but if no one sees your value, it’s the same as if it doesn’t exist.


That’s why momentum matters.


Momentum doesn’t come from being busy.


It comes from building trust and clarity, fast.


When you move with intention in your early days, you become someone others remember—not just because you worked hard, but because you worked smart.


So here’s the roadmap for building that kind of momentum.


The 120-Day Playbook


This framework breaks your first four months into eight clear phases.


Each one builds on the last.


Each one helps you move from invisible to impactful—without burning out, faking confidence, or waiting for someone to hand you a to-do list.


  • Days 1–15: Watch and learn
  • Days 16–30: Build and contribute
  • Days 31–45: Own and expand
  • Days 46–60: Deliver and share
  • Days 61–75: Solve and support
  • Days 76–90: Make and document
  • Days 91–105: Review and plan
  • Days 106–120: Propose and align


It’s not about doing more.


It’s about doing the right things at the right time—so that each week you’re not guessing, you’re stacking momentum.


Real Example: The New Hire Everyone Had Quietly Given Up On


Let’s talk about a team I worked with recently.


They had just hired a junior ops coordinator.


Bright. Detail-oriented. Eager to help. On paper, a great match.


But three weeks in, something was off.


They were showing up to meetings, sure.


They were replying to messages.


But… that was it.


No one could point to a single thing they had actually moved forward.


They hadn’t owned anything.


They hadn’t made anything better.


And honestly, they were invisible.


The team started to wonder if the hire was a mistake. Nothing personal—just… meh.


Here’s what most people miss:


Silence isn’t neutral.


It’s a story people start writing without you.


I stepped in to help and saw the problem immediately.


The new hire wasn’t lazy. They weren’t lost.


They just had no roadmap.


No one had told them what “good” looked like.


No one had shown them how to earn trust in a fast-paced environment.


And they were too polite to ask.


So we threw out the guesswork and rebuilt their first 120 days.


  • First, we made a one-page clarity doc: key people, pain points, goals, and priorities.
  • Then we picked one broken spreadsheet the team hated—one of those “we’ll fix it someday” messes—and they took full ownership of it.
  • Two weeks later, they shared a cleaner, smarter version in the team meeting, along with a walkthrough and quick instructions.


Everything changed after that.


People started pinging them for help.


Their name came up in strategy calls.


They weren’t “the new person” anymore.


They were the one who made things easier.


All because they stopped playing defense and started showing what they could do—on purpose.


The Full Breakdown: What to Do, When


Days 1–15: Watch, Learn, and Log Everything


Forget performing.


Start noticing.


This is your deep observation window. Not to look busy—but to study how things actually work.


What gets talked about a lot but never solved?


Who do people go to when they need real answers?


Where does communication break down?


Start a daily log of questions, patterns, and hidden rules.


The stuff no one writes down but everyone assumes.


You’re not just a new hire. You’re a fresh pair of eyes.


And right now? That’s your superpower.


Days 16–30: Build Something Small and Useful


Now that you’ve seen how things work—and where they don’t—it’s time to move from observation to action.


Your goal here isn’t to take over.


It’s to become useful.


Pick something small:


  • A messy doc that needs structure
  • A recurring task you can automate
  • A confusing process that needs clearer steps


Fix it. Then document it in plain English.


Don’t just say, “I improved it.”


Say, “Here’s how it worked before, here’s what I changed, and here’s what it looks like now.”


People remember clarity.


They forget polite effort.


Days 31–45: Own Something Fully—Then Ship It


Ownership changes perception.


If you want to build trust fast, find a mini-project you can take from idea to delivery.


Maybe it’s cleaning up a data report.


Maybe it’s setting up a better onboarding checklist.


Maybe it’s helping launch a recurring sync.


Whatever it is—don’t just contribute. Lead it.


And when it’s done, reflect on what worked, what you learned, and what could be better next time.


Ownership isn’t about perfection.


It’s about showing you’re not waiting for instructions to do meaningful work.


Days 46–60: Make Your Work Impossible to Miss


This is where most people fumble.


They do great work—and keep it invisible.


You’re not here to brag. But if no one sees your impact, it’s like it never happened.


Learn to communicate your wins simply and clearly:


  • Post short weekly updates (3–5 bullets).
  • Create before/after comparisons when relevant.
  • Show your team how your work makes their lives easier.


People aren’t watching your progress—they’re buried in their own.


Make it easy for them to notice.


Days 61–75: Become the Go-To for One Thing


By now, you’ve probably touched a lot of different things.


Pick one and go deeper.


Maybe it’s your team’s documentation.


Maybe it’s your team’s meeting agenda.


Maybe it’s a backend process that no one wants to own.


Be the person who fixes the thing everyone tiptoes around.


Not just once—consistently.


When people know what they can count on you for, you stop being "the new person" and start being an actual resource.


Days 76–90: Document Everything You’ve Built


You’ve added value.


Now it’s time to make it scalable.


Create guides, templates, or walkthroughs for the things you’ve improved or led.

Think:


  • How would I train someone to take this over?
  • What would help a new teammate ramp faster?


People think documentation is admin work.


It’s not. It’s leadership in disguise.


Days 91–105: Review Your Work Like a Strategist


You’ve been doing.


Now it’s time to step back and evaluate.


Set aside an hour or two and ask:


  • Where did I add the most value?
  • What did I do that no one else thought of?
  • What did I avoid because I didn’t feel ready?


Then put it all in a short document or slide.


Not to prove yourself.


To own your journey and set direction for what comes next.


If your manager hasn’t asked for a review, send it anyway.


You’ll look focused, strategic, and ready for more.


Days 106–120: Pitch an Idea That Moves the Team Forward


At this stage, you’ve earned credibility.


You’ve contributed. You’ve delivered. You’ve listened.


Now, pitch something bigger.


It doesn’t need to be revolutionary.


It just needs to move the team toward less friction or more clarity.


Propose a better workflow.


Suggest a project worth exploring.


Ask to shadow another team so you can connect dots others can’t see.


When you bring ideas that help others win—you stop being seen as “new.”


You’re someone shaping the future of the work, not just responding to it.


Want Support Along the Way? These Tools Help Big Time


Here are a few top-tier resources to help you stay grounded and move with purpose:


The First 90 Days by Michael D. Watkins

A classic for a reason. Full of practical models for transition, trust-building, and early wins.


Gorick Ng’s TED Talk: “How to Succeed in Your New Job”

Simple, smart, and modern. Helps you reframe how to ask for what you need and show up well.


Atomic Habits by James Clear

The go-to guide for small actions that compound. Helps you stay consistent without overthinking.


Your New Job Doesn’t Define You—But How You Show Up Will


What Story Will They Tell About You?


The truth is, most people don’t fail because they weren’t good enough.


They fail because they coasted.


They played it safe.


They waited for direction.


They underestimated how loud silence can be.


But you don’t have to be one of them.


You don’t need to be louder. Or smarter. Or more experienced.


You just need to move on purpose.


Every single action—no matter how small—is either building trust or wasting time.


Every document you clean up.


Every meeting you prep for.


Every follow-up you send.


It all sends a message:


I’m here. I see what needs fixing. And I’m not waiting for permission to make things better.


That’s what gets remembered.


Not your credentials.


Not your potential.


But how you showed up before anyone expected it.


You don’t need to prove everything in 120 days.


But you do need to show that you’re someone who shows up fully.


The rest? It builds from there.


Want the Roadmap as a Downloadable PDF?


The full “First 120 Days” infographic is available as a printable, high-res PDF so you can keep it at your desk, in your Notion hub, or wherever you plan your week.


Use it to track your progress.


Check in on your pace.


And remind yourself: you’re not winging it anymore.


Download it here.

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